How often have you wished you knew how to defuse the difficult people who wreak havoc on your life? Whether it’s a neighbour who keeps disturbing your peace, an employer who manipulates you into unpaid overtime, a spouse who criticizes and controls your every move, a colleague who uses scare tactics to intimidate you, or a student who teases your child without mercy, Take the Bully by the Horns will give you real-life strategies stop people from taking advantage of you. The bold suggestions in Take the Bully by the Horns will show you once and for all how to convince unfair or unkind relatives, co-workers, customers, or strangers to either behave cooperatively or leave you alone.
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Take the Bully by the Horns
The Art and Science of Negotiation
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Bargaining for Advantage: Negotiation Strategies for Reasonable People
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Getting Past No: Negotiating Your Way From Confrontation to Cooperation
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Getting Past No offers a proven breakthrough strategy for turning adversaries into negotiating partners. You’ll learn how to stay in control when under pressure, defuse anger and hostility, find out what the other side really wants, counter dirty tricks, and reach agreements that satisfy both sides’ needs.
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Getting Together: Building Relationships as We Negotiate
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